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You opened your mail box and out fell a beautiful, cream colored envelope. Long before you open it, you know that one of your friends is getting married. You are so happy for her! You immediately contact the number indicated on the RSVP and confirm that you are definitely attending her wedding. Being women, the next question is, “What shall I wear to her wedding?”

Now ladies, everyone wants to look their best at a major event, such as this. If you’re single and open to the dating public, you know that you are on display. Weddings are a perfect opportunity to find romance (just don’t start assuming the first guy you meet at the wedding is walking down the aisle with you).

It is a courtesy to let the bride have all the glory on her wedding day, so please don’t steal her thunder. Dress to look good without piling on the rocks or being too provocative. The hunting ground may be in the open but you don’t want to scare off the pray… I mean the other guests.

You may want to check the invitation before going out and buying a dress for the wedding so that you don’t go overdressed or look out of place. For example, if the time indicated is for 7pm at the Ballroom of the Ritz, then you definitely need to wear a gown. The very name of the place speaks of elegance and black ties. It will definitely be a night to feel like a star.

If you’re not sure of what color to wear, check the invitation. Usually, the card is in the colors of the theme or may have ribbons to indicate it. If you can’t tell from the card, ask when you call the bride. It will make it easier for you to blend in. Generally though, as long as you don’t wear black or overexpose too much skin, you’ll do fine.

Lesley-Ann Graham runs WeddingTrix.com - a valuable wedding planning resource with articles, tips and advice to help you plan your perfect wedding. Visit Lesley-Ann’s wedding blog for more free wedding planning help and advice.

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As you walk along on your quest for the perfect diamond for your mate, you hear, “Pssst! Hey mister, I hear you’re looking for some good rocks. I’ve got some great stones, really reasonably priced. I’ll even throw in the ring for free!”

Sounds shady? You bet he is! Of course, you wouldn’t really buy a diamond from a guy in an alley wearing a trench, right?

Bet you’d be amazed by how many scams are pulled and in broad daylight by jewelers who seem absolutely honest. Some of them even have beautiful shops that look really hi-tech. Beat them at their own game by learning their scams.

The bigger the better, a lot of people say. When a jeweler tells you that you have a five carat diamond ring, don’t get dazzled by the carats. If there was only one stone then you’d have no problem. You might actually be getting a 1 carat diamond surrounded by eight half-carat smaller pieces.

An honest jeweler will tell you the weight of each stone in the ring separate from the center diamond. In fact he’ll even give you a certificate from a reputed lab such as the Gemological Institute of America (GIA) as proof. If he can’t or won’t do these, you’re better off buying from someone else.

Then there’s the bait and switch. The jewelry store will advertise a diamond at a great price. Problem is that when you get there, they’ll tell you that it’s already been sold and try to convince you to get another piece instead. Rarely is this case true. Usually there was never such a piece and they’ll show you something more expensive that they will try to get you to buy instead.

If the diamond that they announced for sale isn’t available, ask for another just like it. If they can’t produce another one of the same special quality and price, you are better off walking out the door. Don’t let them get your hard earned money.

Normally when you go to a jewelry shop, the gems are lying on a beautiful cloth bed under bright lights. The gems are so white and tempting. Hold it right there! Most diamonds really will look whiter especially under lights that give off a certain blue component. If you really want to check the color of a stone, check it in sunlight. If they refuse, refuse to purchase as well.

You were finally able to find the gem that symbolizes your love. You ask your jeweler t o know make it into a ring so that you can propose to your beloved. He said that you would have to leave it with him for a few weeks and he’ll call you when it’s ready.

When the ring arrives, it is beautiful but.something about it just doesn’t feel right. You can’t quite put your finger on it but this doesn’t seem to be the diamond that you bought. How can you tell?

The solution is simple: have the diamond checked by an independent gemologist certified by a group such as the GIA. Have them compare it to the certificate of your diamond to confirm that it is a match. After all, no two diamonds are exactly the same. Then you’ll know and can demand proper action.

Bottom line, to avoid scams you should take the time to educate yourself about the basics of diamonds. Next you’ll need to find a jeweler or gemologist that you can truly trust. Lastly, always ensure that you are given the proper certificate for your gem, one issued by the Gemological Institute of America (GIA) or another reputed independent lab. These will save you a whole lot of money and avoid giving you headaches.

Lesley-Ann Graham runs WeddingTrix.com - a valuable wedding planning resource with articles, tips and advice to help you plan your perfect wedding. The Bride, Groom, Best Man, Bridesmaids and Groomsmen can find it all at http://www.WeddingTrix.com

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Have you ever seen those page-a-day calendars that have uses for duct tape for every day of the year? Well I think there needs to be one for tulle, that wonderful bit of netting that comes in circles, on bolts, or in convenient little spools.

Tulle is a wonderful tool (no pun intended) for those planning a wedding. It’s a versatile, inexpensive product that’s widely available in a range of colors at craft retailers, fabric shops, and party supply stores.

Here are some creative uses for tulle.

– Tulle (the kind on a spool) is a great alternative to curling ribbon. Use it in place of ribbon when wrapping wedding favors or bridal gifts. Try twisting more than one color together for a different effect.

– Tulle makes great bows to decorate the seating at the ceremony. Tie a big, floppy bow at the end of each aisle and let it drape almost to the floor (but not so low that people will trip on it).

– Use tulle in place of streamers at bridal showers. Choose cream or white-colored tulle and mix it with tulle in the colors of the bridal party for a personalized look.

– For a simple wedding bouquet, choose several simple flowers and tie the stems together with cream-colored (or white) tulle.

– Incorporate tulle into ideas for wedding favors. How about plain wineglasses with tiny tulle bows tied along the stem? Or line the goblet of a wine glass with a circle of colored tulle (available in craft stores), and fill it with candies wrapped in silver foil such as chocolate kisses or hard candies.

– Use tulle bows as accents for reception table centerpieces.

These are just a few ideas, but with a little creativity, there are hundreds of uses for tulle. With its variety of colors, shapes, and sizes, tulle is a great for a source of inspiration whether you’re planning a bridal shower or decorating for a wedding.

This article has been submitted in affiliation with http://www.Prye.Com/ which is a site for Wedding Invitations.

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